The Power of Storytelling

How to Hold a Non-Formal Sharing Circle

The Power of Storytelling

We all have a story—stories that can change the world. I have a story, you have a story, and our nations and communities have stories. Sharing our stories is a foundational step in creating meaningful connections, validating each other's lived experiences, balancing our perspectives and rebuilding community.

Our stories often come from deep within us, attached to unprocessed emotions and unique life experiences that shape our worldviews. Sharing allows us to grapple with our thoughts and balance potentioally radicial views without judgment knowing it will lead to balance.

Ancient texts teach us that we "overcome by the power of our testimonies." That's powerful. Our stories and our voices have the potential to overcome the obstacles of our time.

Our Story

The greatest sharing circle in recent history came during the trucker convoy. In the dead of winter, a divinely masculine energy create a sacred space in the heart of the oppressed. Thousands came, in tears and left in dancing. In a country based on representative democracy, our voices mattered, even if only to each other.

My Story

During the unlawful invocation of the Emergency Act, I was arrested. Afterwards, many gathered in camps outside the city. Around fires and in tents, we shared our experiences—with such a great cloud of witnesses who could not deny our experience?

A woman came from Haida Gwaii, BC and announced she had come to anoint seven women. "You will speak for the people," she spoke over me. "Share your story," she whispered as the following months went by, and I did… all the way to the Public Order Inquiry Commission.

Stories That Change the World

Next, I began to tell the story of how international bodies are invading our local governments and how this negatively effects our communities. “Speak for the people.”

Stories touch the heart. Here in Canada, we have many opportunities to use our voices and influence those in power. We have the power to shift local, provincial and federal representatives. A simple, collaborative, fact-based approached is key. We can fill the empty seats of our local council chambers, void of civic engagement, and turn them into bustling hubs of dialogue.

A handful of local councillors, so moved and equipped, have the power to stop any program or plan that does not align with the will of the people. That is how KICLEI was born nationwide—through the power of a story, the power of an example of positive change.

Share Your Story

Many come to me with ideas and stories that can change our world. Many prefer to remain unnamed. To share our collective wisdom, I created the Gather 2030 newsletter—a springboard of effective strategies to confront the challenges of our time. If you would like to share your story and working strategies, please email me at gather2030@protonmail.com.

How to Hold a Non-Formal Sharing Circle

One-on-One Sharing Circle

Find a Comfortable Space:
Choose a relaxed setting, like a cozy corner in a cafe or a quiet park bench.

Set a Relaxed Tone:
Start with casual conversation to ease into the sharing session. Emphasize that this is a relaxed and informal chat.

Share Stories:
Take turns sharing your experiences and thoughts. Encourage openness and honesty, but keep it light and natural.

Listen Actively:
Give your full attention to the speaker without interruptions. Show empathy and understanding through nods and affirming words.

Reflect Together:
Discuss any insights or feelings that arise from the stories shared. Offer supportive feedback and explore common themes.

Keep it Casual:
Maintain a laid-back atmosphere throughout the conversation. Wrap up the session with a casual chat or a simple expression of gratitude.

By holding non-formal sharing circles, we create opportunities for meaningful connections and understanding in a relaxed and comfortable setting. Sharing our stories in these informal environments can be a powerful way to heal, grow, and inspire positive change in our communities.